You are in the driveway. Someone’s car, someone’s gas, four people, twelve hundred miles. The question nobody says out loud: what does a fair split actually look like? Not just the gas — the whole ride.
The short answer: use a per-mile rate, count the driver as one of the riders, and split tolls at cost on top. In AAA’s own 2025 accounting, fuel runs 13 cents a mile out of roughly 77 cents to own and run the car — so gas-only splitting covers about a sixth of it. The rest — maintenance, tires, depreciation — lands on the driver later, with no connection to any group chat. The math is not complicated. The problem is that most groups don’t know which numbers to use or who to count.
Two mistakes show up in almost every road-trip split: the group splits gas and skips the wear, or it uses a per-mile rate but divides by three instead of four because “the driver already has the car.” Both errors feel fair. Neither is. This guide walks through each scenario so the right number is clear before anyone gets in the car.
AAA projected that 39.1 million Americans would drive to a Memorial Day destination in 2026 — 87% of all holiday travelers, the highest road-trip total on record. Every one of those cars has this conversation waiting in it.
Source: AAA, “2026 Memorial Day Travel Forecast” (2026).